This is a subject that we have all struggled with at one time or another. Especially in our society with equality for women often discourages us to be submissive to any man but especially our own husbands. Lynn from Spiritually Unequal Marriage has written up a well balance article on the subject called "Submit to Your Husbands". It can be found over at Internet Cafe Devotions. I hope you go over there and enjoy reading Lynn's post.